Are You Drawn to a Bad Relationship?

What is the attraction to the “bad” boy? The troublemaker that are parents want to disown us for? The one that we know treats us terrible, but we can’t help  but falling head over heels in love?

For some women, the attraction to a “bad boy” and bad relationship can be irresistible – no matter how terrible he treats us or how awful we end up feeling. Many times that thrill of the excitement is simply to tempting to stay away from.

Are you attracted to a bad relationship or the “bad boy”? Answer the following questions to find out.

• • • Does he disrespect you or your children?
    • Does he hurt you on purpose?
    • Is his temper quick to flare?
    • Do you feel your needs and desires are being not met?
    • Do you feel like you are being used?
    • Is he overly critical of you?
    • Have you lost your self-esteem and self-confidence since being involved in a relationship with him?
    • Does he blame you for things that are not flowing smoothly?
    • Is he mean and then nice again begging for forgiveness?
    • Does he continually lie to you?
    • Is he abusive in any way?

If you answered yes to these questions, or even just some of them, then you are involved in a bad relationship and it’s time to evaluate the relationship and value of it. Ask yourself, is it worth it? Remember, you do have the strength to leave a bad relationship, to stop making bad choices, you simply have to take the first step and decide to choose something different.