At one time or another many women have had a time in their life when we lose ourselves in a relationship and become THAT girl. You know the one that seems to have fallen off the deep end. We become obsessive, jealous, and needy. We aren’t really sure when “it” happens, but once we realize we are losing our minds we feel we’re in too deep to get out and have no idea how to climb out or even how we stumbled down that road.
Have you ever been guilty of checking his email, daydreaming of him all the time, seeing him when you should’ve known better, beg him to be the person he once was? Does he keep you on a string? Does he give you just enough attention and what you need to keep you there, but then pushes you away shortly after? Is he emotionally unavailable withholding his love and attention? Does he treat you badly? Does he tell you you are crazy?
Have you been so hung up on him that you can’t think of anyone or anything else? Do you sleep a lot so you can “see him” in your dreams? Do you fantasize about how well it “could be if only”?
If you answered yes to these questions, then you have been in a relationship that’s made you become THAT girl. However, take you can breathe a sigh of relief. Here’s the answer you’ve been waiting for – the one your Soul knows is true. YOU ARE NOT CRAZY!!!
You are not the only woman who’s become obsessive and needy over a guy when you’ve never been that way before. It actually happens a lot and there’s a reason you feel this way. YES, there is a REASON behind the madness of the relationship. You can call it a soul connection, a soulmate, but what it boils down to is a Soul-level agreement.
What is a Soul-level agreement? It’s an agreement two souls made before they incarnated to learn lessons and to do spiritual growth together. It can be karma you need to work off in this lifetime for one reason or another.
Each agreement is different and the circumstances of the relationship change, but the constant is the same, an intense connection you don’t understand. So if you have one of these and feel like you’ve lost your mind, just know you are not crazy and understand that when the karma is resolved, the energy around the relationships subsides and you will come out on the other side a new person, whether the relationship stays or not.
I’d love to hear more of your stories on how you felt so drawn to a person that you threw out all sense! Please feel free to comment below!
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